Quran quotes on dating
They are simply looking to have a friend and a companion in their marriages and live their own lives.
God wants nothing more for his creation than harmony and happiness.
There is an advisement to marry with whom you are compatible, and whom you can live in harmony with.
It is a relational guidance that a believing bondsman is better than a non-believing man and vice-versa for men.
By the way, this is not a Muslim problem exclusively; it is a problem of all faiths, again it is not the faith, but the whims of the guardians of faith.
This piece is for those Muslims who understand the essence of Islam which is to create cohesive societies. He has created the earth and the heavens, planets and the systems and programmed them to function cohesively.
A majority of Muslims quietly go along with it, some have a lot of questions and some are ready to quote verses from Quran and make declarations that they are out of the pale of Islam.In the traditional societies parents rightfully feel responsible to guard the happiness of their offspring, where as parents in North America are learning to believe that their kids are independent and know what they want in their lives, and will find their own happiness.Ultimately they have to live their own lives and you cannot babysit them forever.We are one planet, one earth and one system of creation and through one cause. But, if you are struggling with the idea of pursuing a relationship with a man, who is not a Muslim, but you like him and want to spend your life with him and are tempted to be the Khadija, and then it is worth reading the entire 6000 words piece with most possible questions and answers and references.Finding the truth is your own responsibility, and in Islam, no one is responsible for your actions but you and on one bears the burden of others.